Don’t lead a hypocrite life. Don’t be one person at home and another in public. Be a living example that your children will grow up to be a better future so that they can lead a better life for themselves in the future. They have feelings and sometimes they are confused trying to find themselves. Understand them and let them be who they are don’t pressure them to fit in a box. They are human, they are unique and special. Love them, listen to what they have to say, discipline them and be a present in their lives as they are for you. Raise them to value what is real, raise them to be who they are in a world full of copies. You blame/judge them when they grow up forgetting who raised them. As they grow up you see who they are becoming and that’s your work right there, the way they talk, how they walk and the way they carry themselves. Instead of asking your child to be who you want them to be (someone they are not), raise them into A King and A Queen. Make them see thier worth that they are priceless not worthless. Love them for who they are not for what they can do for you. Practice what you preach and know that you are not perfect but you can be true both to yourself and your children. Be A Living Example, lead them by example not talk. Don’t just build a house, make a Home for your child to feel safe and loved. They are the future.